MY SHELL: Where I Keep On Ranting

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I always thought that I’ve A PERFECT LIFE. But one thing that I’ve discovered as I go along with life is this, that there can never be such thing as PERFECT. Some things in life will just make us cry, sad, alone but in the long run they will make us smile and happy. Life is just amazing. I was wrong. The beauty of life lies within its IMPERFECTION. The least that I can do is MASTER THE FACT THAT NO ONE CAN LIVE LIFE PERFECTLY.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Rant # 14: 15 Ways To A Successful Relationship

A conversation over Yahoo Messenger on 11:06 AM 9/1/2008.

GUY 1: Three (3) weeks na kami break nong friend ko na naging lover din. And I don't know kung magkakabalikan kami.

GUY 2: Aba nasa inyo yan. Kung sa tingin mo may pag asa pa then work on it. Kung wala na, hanap na ng iba. Ganun lang ka simple yon.

Dapat aware kayo sa feelings ng bawat isa eh.



GUY 1: Talaga? Ako I want to work it out... Pero I don't know with him. Di ko alam if I have to make the first move kasi actually, I tried na before pero nothing happened... I didnt pursue him nalang.

GUY 2: Prankahin mo sya... Kung gusto pa ba nya sayo... or baka naman may iba na sya kase tol.

GUY 1: Talaga? Di ba pathetic move yon?

GUY 2: Maraming lalake dyan. Hindi naman kase. Hindi lang sya ang taong pwedeng mag mahal sayo. Marami dyan.

GUY 1: uu nga... pero iba kasi yong start ng relationship namin. We started out as super buddies...room mates pa and same office lang... I dont think kasi makakahanap ako ng someone like him here in Manila... 'Yong tipong beyond sex na relationship.


GUY 2: Ahh ganun ba? Oo nga naman tama ka dun. Well ikaw ano ba dpat mong gawin? 'Yong tama ha. Kase walang ibang pwdeng tumulong sa inyo kundi mga self nyo din. Dapat alam nyo sa self nyo kung kayo pa ba or hindi na.

GUY 1: Nakakainis nga... Mahirap mag move on coz isang house lang kami, isang office, same shift pa... so kami kami lang talaga ang magkakasama always... Iisa pa yong kama namin... Ayoko rin namang mag move out... Kasi ok na yong location namin from our office...I dont know...

GUY 2: OK then.

GUY 1: Confused talaga ako ngayon. I still want him pero remembering the things that he did to me, parang napapaback out ako.

GUY 2: Pag isipan mo muna kase. Kita mo na. Analyze mo muna. Kase mukhang naguguluhan ka eh.

GUY 1: Nag rereflect nga ako ngayon.

GUY 2: Ok if u say so...

GUY 1: hehehe... Anyways... How did you make it up ba? (At nagtagal kayo for 5 years ng boyfriend mo?)

Patience?

Or what?

GUY 2: hmmm... OK.. Gaya ng sinabi...

GUY 1: Ano ingredients to a successful relationship?

GUY 2: ...kanina bihira kaming mag away ni JB. kase simple lang. una una sa lahat

1. Be loyal and always be sweet
2. Never lie to one another
3. Pag may di ka gusto sabihin mo
4. Wag kang mag sasabi ng ok tapos hindi naman pala
5. Be aware sa feelings nya
6. Wag mong gagawin yong mga bagay na ayaw nya
7. wag mo syang ikukumpara sa mga ex mo
8. Never talk about break ups
9. When you get hurt just forgive and forget
10. Forget about your "PRIDE"
11. If you say sorry, mean it
12. Don't talk about your stupid x's
13. Just give and take
14. When you had a fight, don't let the day end w/o being fine.
15. You Don't have to be the perfect one, just be BE THE RIGHT ONE





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2 comments:

Cocky Spaniel said...

life's a bitch, relationships are supposed to make things a little bearable and not complicated. if not at least enjoy the ride =)

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Lemuel Kit said...

yeah... you're right... we cannot really expect things to turn out the way we wanted it to be... thanks for the comment. :)